Every man tries to build a world of his own......in dis actual world......A world wherein he is surrounded by his loved ones and people and things which he likes......On da whole he will be in a well protected,secure place.....within his comfort zone which is "HIS" world.......It is da world where one can find only happiness,bliss n satisfaction.......
But his world will be constantly n continuously affected by da external [actual] world....and it always tries to pollute dis small little happy world..........
This is da point where da war begins......At this point of time unknowingly TWO wars begins simultaneously......Da first one is da war between da man's world n da external world...... Da second and da worst war is,da war between da “MAN n HIMSELF”……This man tries to fight hard against da contrasts of da 2 worlds [his world n da actual world]
Da 1st war disturbs da equilibrium of his world where his everyday activities ,lifestyle n relationships is affected…......Da second war disturbs his mental equilibrium…..which is da effect of da 1st war…….
Tough times starts and this man feels as though he has been blind folded and kicked into a dense forest…….
His way of thinking,lifestyle,approach towards life & health condition changes……He starts feeling dat he is fit for nothing…..,a looser, an unsuccessful man……..
Des 2 wars may lead da man to mental depression,addiction to narcotics……n all other sort of –ve actions n in som extream conditions even may lead to “SUICIDE”
Suddenly from no where a thought flashes in where in he remembers a quote dat “Tough times never lasts but Tough people do……”
At dis point of time da man withdraws himself from both da worlds and all wars for som duration & spends a lot of time within himself…….He tries to identify da root cause for all da wars…..imbalances…..n troubles n tries to find a way or create a way to overcome da defeat & he fills in a new zeal to reconstruct his world……..!!!!!!!
He now understands himself better dan earlier…….n even both da worlds,his people,loved ones,friends n family….……
Now he implements da essence n da knowledge gained during da tough times to da wars he is fighting…….He now knows “wat to do n wat not to do…..”Dis time he starts to set right da things with patients…..
He realizes dat a huge tree is hidden inside a small seed jst lik his huge potential n he also realizes dat it takes years for a seed to become a tree……
He looks back and see’s his earlier “innocent n happy world” n later da “War” n now at present “peaceful aftermath conditions of war ”
He now feels dat he has become a complete man……his transition from an innocence GUY to da complete MAN……
He identifies da transition phases 4m being innocent to confused to a complete man…..He is now ready to face any challenges of da world n he is very confident of building a strong fort around his small little world…..
wat i firmly believe is dat "Every war has an end……Peace is da ultimate out come of all wars…….Instead of achieving peace after a war,its better to maintain peace by avoiding all wars….."
Finally da toughest war of all times in dis world is “Da war between you and yourself…….Once you win yourself …..Winning dis world is very very very Easy thing”
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